One of my mother’s favorite quotes was “Look good and look around!” I’ll address the first part—save the second for later…
Learning to Sew: Mary Ann’s Early Passion
Mary Ann Brigandi learned to sew at a young age and had dreams of becoming a fashion designer. Her mother, Frances, even used a sketch she made to hold her ancient birth certificate together! Frances was a seamstress by trade and passed her exquisite skills along to Mary Ann. Well, except for the time I let my grandmother, Frances, make my prom dress…
The FIT Experience
Mary Ann briefly attended The Fashion Institute of Technology (FIT) in New York City but gave up her dreams as a designer when she was told her design skills were best utilized as a milliner. As her young daughters, we would marvel at her hat sketches and wonder why she never pursued her passion for design.
A Life of Style: Mary Ann’s Fashion and Confidence
She never gave up on style, however, and was always well dressed and well-coiffed. She loved to model for the camera with the clothes she sewed herself and was a willing model for her brother’s photography practice.
When she passed, she didn’t leave instructions for how she would like to be dressed, so my sister and I were tasked with finding an outfit. In a fit of grief and hilarity, we mused in the lingerie department of Macy’s as to the type of underwear she would have approved of and if she really needed them. I’ll never tell what we decided, but I’m sure she is quite happy in heaven.
To view photo’s of Mary Ann click here: Mary Ann’s Photo Gallery
“Look Around”: Mom’s Take on Love and Marriage
Now, about that “look around” part. Mom wasn’t just talking about sightseeing. She was also giving us her sage advice on love. She always encouraged her daughters to “play the field” and never settle. Her golden rule? Marry someone who “loves you more than you love him.” She was a practical woman who knew her daughters deserved to be adored.